Rate your goal across key dimensions and receive an evidence-based recommendation in real time.
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Persistence factors
Realistic chance of success
If you keep going, how likely are you to actually make meaningful progress — being honest with yourself about the real obstacles?
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1 – very unlikely10 – highly likely
How much this still matters to you
Setting aside what you’ve already spent on it — does this goal genuinely align with who you are and what you care about now?
5
1 – barely matters10 – core to who I am
What you’ve already built toward this
How much have you already invested — time, skills, knowledge, connections — that would be hard to rebuild elsewhere?
5
1 – just started10 – deep investment
Disengagement factors
Toll on your health and wellbeing
How much is continuing this goal wearing you down — physically, mentally, in your relationships or day-to-day functioning?
5
1 – no real impact10 – severely draining me
What else you’re giving up for this
How much are other goals, relationships, or opportunities that genuinely matter to you being crowded out by this one?
5
1 – nothing significant10 – crowding out everything
How good your alternatives are
If you stepped away from this goal, how promising are the other paths, projects, or directions waiting for your time and energy?
5
1 – no real alternatives10 – excellent alternatives
Structural constraint
Obstacles outside your control
How much is your progress blocked by things you genuinely cannot change — policies, market conditions, systemic barriers, or lack of access?
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1 – path is open10 – wall I can’t move
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Four core questions
A — How likely is progress if I continue?
Realistic assessment, not wishful thinking
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1 – very unlikely10 – highly likely
V — Does this truly still matter to me?
Not ego or sunk costs — genuine, personal value
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1 – barely10 – deeply
H — Is this harming my health or functioning?
Physical, mental, relationships, basic self-care
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1 – not at all10 – severely
O — Is this blocking other meaningful goals?
Time, energy and attention being redirected away
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1 – not blocking10 – completely blocking
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