Do you know someone who always seems to be on guard, uneasy, and bodily tensed? They can’t name any obvious reason why they can’t relax, even at home. It’s just that some time ago, they started constantly thinking and worrying about their physical safety. They try to prevent their body from any damage. I would …
To rebuild your identity after burnout, you can practice radical honesty. By identifying specific actions you wish to stop doing and categorizing your response into one of three psychological states – numbness, overwhelm, or resistance – you can implement targeted micro-actions to reconnect with your authentic self and restore your healthy boundaries. What does it …
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Remember this moment when you don’t know where to start a difficult task? 3 years ago, to deal with discomfort, you’d get some coffee, open reels/shorts or whatever. Now you might have a new idea. “Let me check what ChatGPT…Gemini…Claude says first. Then I’ll know where to start” Over time, you start researching more and …
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Last week, someone asked me if it’s okay to feel grumpy and lazy in December. And I was like “Sure, that’s all because of your melatonin”.But they were like “Huh? The sleep pill?” This is why I made this post — to help you master your winter rhythm and mood without self-blaming for laziness. I double …
Complaining can harm one’s health and wealth if it becomes a person’s only way to self-regulate. In other words, when a person feels discomfort, stress, intense emotions, or tension, complaining is the only thing they do to feel better. 3 mechanisms by how complaining affects the psyche: 1 – Chronic stress background due to regular …
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“I`m stressed and tired all the time, but there is nothing really wrong in my life” – that’s how people often start coaching sessions with me. I hear this again and again from smart people who seem to have it all together – job, business, family, hobbies… But here is the thing. ________________________________ Chronic stress …
Instincts and occasional habits are surprisingly not enough The biggest mistake in managing stress is to think that it will disappear by itself. That we are born with the ability to cope with it correctly. The thing is … it doesn’t work in modern society. We’re born with: 1. Some instincts that are useful in …
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Two traps that catch even the smartest and the bravest (from the coach of ambitious people) Is it worth walking a path if you don’t know where it leads? Is it worth the risk if there’s no guarantee I will like what I find? Here is the point where a lot of people get stuck …
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Struggling to Rest and Relax? Try This Powerful Yet Simple Method to Calm Your Mind and Renew Energy. Once a week I go into a “cat mode” to recover. And this really works. Here is why and how. We live now in constant background stress. There are just too many reasons to stress out. And …
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One of the predictions for the next 2-3 years is the emergence of more personalized chatbots. Imagine a companion who knows all your pains, fears, and dreams, and accompanies you 24/7. When trying not to let AI overtake us, we rely on the mind in the sense of knowledge and skills. But we forget about …